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How to Be a Good Parent - Newsletter
- The MomCo Winter Garden
- Jan 3, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Jan 17, 2024
What does it mean to be a good parent? Here are three valuable tools to effectively reach your kid’s heart, which is really what a good parent does. Karrie Garcia is a pastor, life coach, author and CEO who inspires others by boldly sharing her journey to freedom. She shares with humor and insight gained from 18 years of parenting.
UPCOMING EVENT
What does it mean to be a good parent? Here are three valuable tools to effectively reach your kid’s heart, which is really what a good parent does. Karrie Garcia is a pastor, life coach, author and CEO who inspires others by boldly sharing her journey to freedom. She shares with humor and insight gained from 18 years of parenting.
FIT4MOM West Orlando Hi everyone! My name is Kelly and I am the owner and founder of FIT4MOM West Orlando! I am mom to two amazing daughters, Victoria and Camille. I am originally from St. Louis, MO, moved to Tampa, FL in 2016, was introduced to FIT4MOM Tampa in 2019 after I had my first daughter and moved to Orlando in August 2021. When I learned there was no FIT4MOM here, I knew I wanted to build an amazing community of mamas here!
Wear your workout clothes. We will hear from Kelly and do a workout in the parking lot
Let's take a break from being a mom & relax with Appetizers/desserts and take a dip in TJ's hot tub.
Please bring an Appetizer/Dessert to share (comment in the discussion section what you can bring if you are coming).
Also bring a swimsuit and towel.
Can't wait to relax, enjoy good food and company together.
We hope to see you there.
Thurs, Feb. 1 at 6:30pm - Meetup 10 @ Horizon West
Sometimes we get so busy taking care of others that we forget to think about our own wellbeing. Let’s talk about the most common stressors and solutions in the areas of emotional, physical, social and spiritual wellness. Bonnie Gray is a soul care coach and author who helps women detox from stress, worry and anxiety so they can find their spark of joy again. RSVP
Join us at Tori's house for Galentine's & our favorite things night. This event in so much fun!! We get to share goodies with each other and eat sweet treats and take home 3 of someones favorite things.
Please Bring 3 of your favorite items to participate in the swap: (examples are things like: mascara, lip balm, candle, snack, chocolate, hand scrub, make up, gadget, etc.) Bring them wrapped up in bags or wrap.
Each of your 3 items should value $5. So 3 $5 items you will bring and you will receive 3 different $5 items to take home.
Please sign up in the discussion section with your food/beverage you can bring to share that day also. See your sweet self there
Let's go play with the kids at Lollipops indoor playground located inside the West Oaks Mall. They do require socks so don't forget to bring socks for you and your children. You can wear your own or they have some available for $2 each.
Parents are free, children are $12 for 2 hours of play.
We can't wait to have some fun together here!
The easiest way to find lollipops inside the mall is to park in the middle where the main entrance is on the right side of the mall walking in you should see the merry go round, food court, AMC theaters,etc. once you walk to the middle of the mall pass all of that. Take a left and walk down and you should see it on your left about 5 stores down.
Thurs, Feb. 15 at 6:30pm - Meetup 11 Combined @ Horizon West
Passion doesn’t let us settle. Understanding our identity, embracing our calling and practicing good rhythms are foundational themes that will help us not just settle for what IS in our marriage, but instead to work towards what could be. Gabe and Rebekah Lyons are authors and ministry leaders who have been married for 25 years and are raising four children. They share openly about their own marriage and encourage each of ours. RSVP
EXTRA INFO
Thank you for your desire to be a part of MOPS/MOMSNext Winter Garden! Here at MOPS, we gather and support moms. We believe in the simple but revolutionary idea that remarkable things happen when moms come together.
This is the year to make some moves. Say “Yes.”
Register HERE.
Please refer to our Google Sheet for your POD assignments and food rotation schedule. When it is your turn to provide food, please put what you will be bringing or if you will be chipping in money to help contribute. If for some reason you cannot make it to the meeting, please drop off your food to someone else in your POD.
See schedule HERE.
I LOVE YOU MESSAGES PRINTABLE:
HOW TO BE A GOOD PARENT - CONNECTION QUESTIONS
What is your go-to response when you are frustrated or angry?
What is a story from your childhood that you feel shaped you as an adult?
Consider a time when you reacted negatively to your child or spouse. Is there an old hurt that may be at the root of this reaction?
Is there a time when someone has given you the opportunity to repair a mistake?
Is there a situation for which you need to give your child or spouse an opportunity for repair? What can you do today to tend to that process?
DEVOTIONAL
Watch Us and Smile
Andrea Fortenberry, Executive Leadership Coachandreafortenberry.comblog.mops.org/watch-us-and-smile
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:. . . a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance. – Ecclesiastes 1:1 and 4 NIV
One night while giving my kids a bath, my mind started to wander. I was so tired and completely ready to be off duty for the night. I began thinking about what was on my to-do list for the next day. I couldn’t wait to put the kids in bed and watch the next episode of my show.
While I was lost in my thoughts, my kids started splashing each other. They threw bubbles and scoops of water into the air and all over the floor. All the noise caught my attention. I must have had a disapproving look on my face because my son yelled, “Mom! Watch us and smile!”
His words reminded me of how often I forget to smile and have fun with my kids. I often allow the demands of motherhood and running a household to weigh me down. I can take things too seriously.
I am so thankful for the reminder that my kids are watching me. They watch my reactions and my expressions. They watch me sitting on the sidelines while they’re having fun. Wouldn’t it be neat to give our kids memories of mom joining in on the fun?
Since that night at bath time, I’ve tried to be intentional about saying “yes” to my kids’ invitations for fun and playfulness. I may have rolled my ankle attempting parkour, but hey, I tried! I also try to initiate moments of fun with them. Sometimes it’s putting on fun music to sing along in the car or dance in the kitchen. Other times, it’s keeping a deck of cards on our kitchen table that we can pull out while dinner is finishing or we’re having an afternoon snack.
Fun may not come naturally to us anymore as grown-ups, but we need it just as much as kids do. A beautiful blessing of raising children is that they remind us of this truth. Let’s watch them and smile. Let’s “say yes” to fun as much as possible!
Questions:
What holds you back from having fun with your kids?
How can you incorporate more fun into your time with them?
Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? Matthew 6:26-27 NIV
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